SENIOR WITH ALZHEIMER’S DEMENTIA CHANGES TRYING TO COMMUNICATE

Of all of the changes the family sees in their loved one with Alzheimer’s dementia, the most frightening is personality and behavioral changes.  When the senior with dementia acts childish, irrational, stubborn, suspicious, paranoid, or becomes physically combative, the caregiver can be frightened.  The caregiver can feel that the relationship is over, this person is now a stranger.

These behaviors are not only frightening for the caregiver but even more so for the person with dementia.  Preventing behaviors is always the goal, and so much easier that dealing with a full burst of anger.

Preventing bad behaviors:

  • be alert and aware to what is going on in the environment – if the last time Grandpa became angry were there too many people, too much talking, too much noise, just too much stimulation?
  • arguing with a person with dementia never works, the person just doesn’t have the reasoning skills any longer to engage in finding solutions – divert attention and head off any confrontations
  • respect and protect the elder’s dignity , there is a real reason why bathing is such a hard task for someone with dementia – being undressed is a huge loss of control
  • make every task as simple as possible – breakdown the task into one step at a time – even though this slows progress – slow and happy is much better than fast and unhappy
  • reassure, and reassure again and again – the elder is very afraid of being abandoned – even the most demanding elder is basically afraid of abandonment

The elder with dementia doesn’t mean to be difficult. Difficult behaviors are a means of communication by the elder. The elder knows that they are missing something everyone else understands. The changes the elder feels they are no longer able to communicate with words. So the elder will try to gain control over their environment through – behaviors.

Virginia Garberding RN

Certified in Gerontology and Restorative Nursing