WHY DOES AN ELDERLY PERSON NEED A NURSING HOME/REHAB FACILITY?

Why do people need to go to nursing home or rehab facility?

  • they need nursing help with bathing, eating, dressing, or walking
  • they have just come out of the hospital and are not ready to go home
  • they are unsafe and can no longer take care of themselves
  • they have dementia and and forget how to take care of themselves

Why do these people need so much assistance?

It may be for a medical condition that they are recovering from, or the nursing facility has the equipment or human assistance they need to recover. It can be that they are recovering from an infection and need medications better delivered at a nursing facility. It maybe that they are just too weak to live independently, or they are frail due to advanced age. The elder with poor vision can have a hard time shaving, dressing, even difficulty eating independently much less shopping for food and meal preparation.

The elder with dementia may not even remember how take care of himself, even how to brush his teeth:

  • he may not remember that he needs to brush his teeth
  • not remember that he hasn’t brushed his teeth
  • not remember what equipment he needs to brush his teeth
  • not remember how to brush his teeth, what to do first and what to do next – the entire process of brushing teeth

How much should you help a person with dementia?

“Why do you make my wife brush her own hair?” a husband asks the nursing assistant. “Isn’t that your job?”

  • the confused elder feels better about themselves if they do as much of their own care as is possible
  • the elder who participate in their own care remain healthier and stronger
  • the job of the nursing staff is to teach the confused elder how to take care of themselves
  • it is the responsibility of everyone in a nursing community to help their patients be as independent as possible
  • always support ability not disability, provide just as much assistance as the person needs

Virginia Garberding RN

Certified in Gerontology and Restorative Nursing